>>Is getting happiness, money, love important in life?
Maybe, yes, and maybe.
I am old (almost 60 now), American, and married to a wonderful lady born in India.
For sure you need money to survive and to have some fun. Work like a man possessed and be wise with your hard-earned wages! You will need money to have a good life when you are older.
I can't tell you any wise words about happiness. In my life happiness has come and gone, some moments better than others. Life isn't easy for anyone but having a good career and stability makes it easier.
Love is not so easy to find. And I cannot really advise here as our cultures are so different, you will be getting pressured to marry from your family I think and this was not so for me. But I think that any two people who have at least some compatibility can find joy and comfort in each others company.
Best of luck to you, anons.